Online matchmaking is arguably the best option for finding
life partners. One can arrange his or her own love marriage!
It might not be the perfect way, but then which one
is? Here are some positive as well as negative lessons
learnt from online matchmaking.
1. An Accountant? How boring! He likes sports only?
Not my type! His idea of marriage is having lots of
kids? Huh! No way. Ah! This one is a Scientist, likes
movies and classical music. And his idea of marriage
is everlasting bond of love! He sounds nice and interesting!
I am definitely going to reply to his mail.
You do not have to entertain each and every guy
who shows interest in you. You can read their profiles
and decide whether you are interested or not.
2. It is so peaceful! No over-enthusiastic relatives
to take your 'interview'. Just you and your partner,
mailing and chatting about everything you want to
know about each other.
The biggest advantage - you have your privacy.
No group discussions with fathers, mothers, uncles,
aunts. Simply one to one
3. I can never talk to a guy openly in the first
meeting. I am a very shy person. No wonder, the previous
guys whom I met, never got back with a proposal. But
mailing and chatting seemed to work ideally for me.
I told him everything about myself and got to know
everything I wanted to know about him. And then when
we met. It never felt like a first meeting. I was
so comfortable talking to him!
Online sites are an amazing option for shy/timid
people to find life partners of their choice.
4. You know everything about him! He was absolutely
frank and forthcoming. You too have told him everything
about yourself, even things you would've otherwise
felt awkward about telling him in person.
Since you were exchanging mails or chatting, you
could ask each other every detail, without feeling
awkward, which would've been pretty uncomfortable
if you would've met in person.
5. Wow, he looks stunning, especially in that picture
when he was wearing a blazer. You are dying to meet
him, but uh-ho, when you actually see him in person,
well... how you wished that love actually was blind!
Never expect the person to look as good as he
does in his photographs.
6. When he said he is adventurous, he meant he likes
sitting at home and watch James Bond. When he said
he loves dressing you must not have imagined in your
wildest dreams that Govinda is his idol!
Very often what a person says, what he means and
what you understand are three different things.
Do you have any online experience that you would
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